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Halloween letter to a pen pal: 7 things to write about and an example

A Halloween letter that asks how your pen pal’s town spends October 31 gets more replies than a scary one. 7 ideas, an example letter and how to get the Halloween stamp.

Halloween letter to a pen pal: 7 things to write about and an example

A Halloween letter that asks how your pen pal's town spends October 31 gets more replies than a scary one, because the day looks very different from country to country. On Lettie, sending one letter between Oct 24, 12:00 UTC and Nov 1, 12:00 UTC earns a free Halloween stamp.

Halloween looks different everywhere

WhereWhat the day looks like
US & CanadaKids dress up and go trick-or-treating; pumpkins become jack-o'-lanterns
Ireland & UKHalloween is usually traced back to Samhain, a Celtic autumn festival
MexicoRight after Halloween, November 1–2 is the Day of the Dead, honouring those who have died
Korea & JapanMostly a costume night for young people; many people don't mark it at all

7 things to write about

  1. October 31 where you live — shop decorations, a costume you saw, or an ordinary evening.
  2. Something that scared you as a kid — keep it light. They'll tell you one back.
  3. A costume you wore, or want to wear — describing it in words feels more like a letter than a photo.
  4. Autumn food — pumpkin, chestnuts, sweet potatoes, whatever this season tastes like for you.
  5. A one-line-each story — start with "When I opened the door…" and leave the next sentence to them.
  6. A similar day — if Halloween isn't a thing there, ask what day comes around this time of year.
  7. The stamp on your letter — if you used the Halloween stamp (a black cat beside a jack-o'-lantern under an orange moon), start there.

Example letter

Hi! On my way home today, the bakery window had paper pumpkins on it. Halloween isn't a big thing here, but every October the shops quietly turn orange. I didn't know Halloween as a kid, and the first jack-o'-lantern I saw honestly scared me. What does October 31 look like where you are? Was there something that scared you as a kid?

If your pen pal reads another language, the translate button on the writing screen turns your draft into theirs.

A few cautions

  • Skip gore. Translation can make it read harsher than you meant.
  • Some people don't celebrate Halloween for religious or family reasons. Ask, don't push.
  • Send a day early to land on the 31st. Letters take 1–24 hours depending on distance.

Other holiday stamps are in the 2026–2027 holiday stamp calendar; for openers, see how to start a pen pal letter.

Frequently asked questions

What should I write in a Halloween letter?
Letters that ask how your pen pal’s town spends Halloween get more replies than scary stories. One scene from your own October 31 plus one question is enough.
Can I write to a friend who doesn’t celebrate Halloween?
Yes. Many countries and people don’t celebrate it, so ask about a similar day in their calendar instead.
How do I get the Lettie Halloween stamp?
Send one letter between Oct 24, 12:00 UTC and Nov 1, 12:00 UTC and a free stamp arrives.

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